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More switching ! (this time over skype!)

     So today was certainly something different. Probably the first time trancing happened over skype with me not being the one being tranced. (:P) I was quite nervous being the Top during this scene over Skype. Since We've done it over im a few times already. ^^ Plus I planned things out slightly via google docs in order to have a better handle on things. That mostly helps with phrases and brainstorm triggers which are harder than it looks to come up with. We had planned this definitely like a few days ago. I was excited also nervous because having never done this by voice with anyone before.  It helps that Turq knows me well and we've done this over im already. So it's not like I'm going in blind but I was still nervous about it.       We had started by im while waiting to start Skyping. We were going on for awhile I was beginning to worry we wouldn't get to do video at all today. During the playing over im I gave him a trance trigge...

Being a Switch

    So I thought I would spend this blog post contemplating my relatively newly embraced switchness. I honestly had been dancing around the thought of it on and off for a while. Although I feel I'm way more submissive than dominant, the idea of dominating someone (more so in a hypnosis situation probably) on occasion does feel like a very hot idea. I just want to say this won't change my dynamic with my Dom, Turq in any way since in regards to him I'm quite subby. Although while talking about this I did ask him about hypnotizing once to see how it went. He said neither yes or no but that he's use to dominant in regards to our dynamic (which I agree with since it's quite enjoyable the way it is). I'd probably approach it in a a submissive capacity anyway (as a way to please him or something) since the idea of Domming him especially when he has so many methods of stopping me in my tracks it's laughable. So you'll certainly still have posts of me being hy...